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jeff
USA
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 Posted - Mar 02 2011 : 3:55:26 PM
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Most of us have busy schedules and sometimes find it hard to make two - hour long sessions a day work, but I believe everyone can find time for ten - 2 minute exercises. I thought it might be useful to start a thread where we all help each other live more in the moment (or Yoga in Life Practices). I pre-warn that some of this may depart slightly from standard AYP (Yogani said it was OK ).
The first topic that I thought might be interesting for everyone is: The Ego and how to identify it.
Endless ancient (and modern) writings have talked about killing it, but how do you even find it? I have a simple experiment for you. Try to notice how many threads you have going on in your mind at any one time. While you are reading this are you also on the phone or thinking about other work you are doing. Most people have 5-6 threads (or voices) going on. All of those threads creating noise are the Ego.
I have two questions for everyone (please respond).
How many threads do you normally have going on (no enlightened people can answer )? And, should we continue things like this, or am I wasting your time?
Peace & Love. |
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CarsonZi
Canada
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Posted - Mar 02 2011 : 4:03:25 PM
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Hi Jeff 
1.) I used to have probably close to a dozen "threads" going on at any given time... now, there is usually one or two, maybe three at an absolute maximum.
2.) Is it actually possible to waste time? 
Love!
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Kirtanman
USA
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Posted - Mar 02 2011 : 6:55:53 PM
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Hi Jeff,
If you like, please check out http://livingunbound.net - especially in Level 1 of our lessons there, we offer some material on identifying ego, seeing through mind-stories, etc. -- that seem to be along the lines of your first question, here.
Our focus is on the aspects of sadhana that occur outside of sitting practices. For sitting practices, we of course refer everyone back to AYP.
I hope this is useful.
Wholeheartedly,
Kirtanman |
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jeff
USA
971 Posts |
Posted - Mar 02 2011 : 10:16:20 PM
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Kirtanman,
Thank you for pointing out your site. It is definitely along the lines of what I thought would be helpful to add to the forum. I feel that bringing simple practices into our daily lives increases our awareness. My thought was along the lines of the "Two Minute Manager" series. Simple practices for an aware and "unbound life".
Peace & Love,
Jeff |
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Etherfish
USA
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Posted - Mar 02 2011 : 10:27:28 PM
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| I hope you know that basic AYP practices are much shorter than two, one hour sessions. More like two 15 or 20 minute sessions. |
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jeff
USA
971 Posts |
Posted - Mar 02 2011 : 11:07:36 PM
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Yes. Thanks. I should have put a smile there .
Peace & Love. |
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maheswari
Lebanon
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Posted - Mar 03 2011 : 03:02:29 AM
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How many threads do you normally have going on?
they are so many...why count them ...let them come and go...their traffic will be reduced...
should we continue things like this, or am I wasting your time?
is there something better worth doing?
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bewell
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Posted - Mar 03 2011 : 05:10:35 AM
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Ego?
Who is trying to notice? Who responds when others ask for a response from the person they call "you"? Who identifies mind threads as mine? Who counts time as wasted or as "my" time? How much time did I spend composing this reply? About30 minutes to an hour including the time it took too to read
Main Lesson 428 - The Transformation of Ego
http://www.aypsite.org/428.html
And to do some of Kirtanman's Living Unbound exercises.
I figure I normally am able to be present in the present, but sometimes I have some noisy thoughts that I identify as "mine" and that are what Adya might call "sticky." Usually it is one sticky thought at a time, but I'm not sure.
Jeff, if you find it helpful to do this sort of thing, go for it. |
Edited by - bewell on Mar 03 2011 05:12:15 AM |
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stevenbhow
Japan
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Posted - Mar 03 2011 : 11:32:03 PM
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| I'm more concerned with the numerous threads that I get so caught up in that I mistake them for the Self. I think Ego is much like a tricky virus in this way that it can conceal itself by convincing you that you are it like viruses do to cells. It is discouraging sometimes, but I try and look at it like a mantra. When I go off the mantra in meditation I gently bring myself back and continue. I try to do the same with overpowering thoughts and emotions in day to day life. |
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jeff
USA
971 Posts |
Posted - Mar 04 2011 : 11:19:25 AM
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Steven,
I agree, trying to pick out the right thread doesn't work well. Lot of viruses in the Sims game .
A couple of things that have helped me. Try just listening to relaxing music that you enjoy. If you don't think and just listen, you will notice that the music seems to get louder. When it get louder (or you feel the energy), the threads have quieted. Another good one for me is when I just watch one of my children, I often find myself smiling. When you spontaneously smile, the ego is usually pretty quiet.
Have a good weekend!
Smiles, Jeff |
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Yaming
Switzerland
112 Posts |
Posted - Mar 04 2011 : 11:55:18 AM
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quote:
I hope you know that basic AYP practices are much shorter than two, one hour sessions. More like two 15 or 20 minute sessions.
not really. 20 min DM 10 min SPB and 10 min rest which is already 40 min. And that is really just the basic practice that is written out in the first few lessons. Later on there comes more, so I see how it easily can come to 1 hour over the years. |
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cosmic
USA
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Posted - Mar 04 2011 : 4:34:46 PM
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One thing that's really helped me outside of sitting practices is "relax and allow", which I learned from Kirtanman. It involves being aware throughout your day, noticing whenever there is resistance or contraction of the awareness. Then just allowing the awareness to open up and accept whatever is happening in the moment.
It works wonders because eventually you see that you are not the one that resists or contracts. There can be pain, "mindy-ness", feeling crappy, ego, etc. but you see that you are not any of those things. Then ego and thoughts (the so-called "bane" of spiritual practice) are no longer a problem. They can be there and you do not suffer.
At least that's my experience. Thank you, K-man!
Love
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jeff
USA
971 Posts |
Posted - Mar 05 2011 : 1:44:12 PM
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Cosmic,
Do you find that as you "relax and allow", that in general the "mindy-ness" diminishes?
Thanks, Jeff |
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cosmic
USA
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Posted - Mar 05 2011 : 2:30:33 PM
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quote:
Originally posted by jeff
Do you find that as you "relax and allow", that in general the "mindy-ness" diminishes?
Hi Jeff
I find that it does diminish, but it still happens daily. Thoughts have become very subtle, so they're much less distracting than they used to be. They are only overt if I actively engage them, or actively think about something. So it's easier to not get lost in thoughts when they arise. They're simply there and I witness them.
But I must say that deep meditation is the real key for me. Without it, I don't know how effective "relax and allow" would be. I say this because I've tried similar things before I had discovered meditation, and their usefulness was limited.
Love
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jeff
USA
971 Posts |
Posted - Mar 06 2011 : 1:02:41 PM
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Cosmic,
I agree about DM, but I also find it is a two way street. For me, simple practices during the day make the energy flow and silence grow . It may also just be me and my crazy schedule, but I often find it hard to find time for DM. On the positive side, I now actually look forward to long drives for my youngest soccer games.
Peace & Love, Jeff |
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