Lesson 31 - Q&A – Constant Coming...

From: Yogani
Date: Sun Jun 6, 2004 0:23am

New Members: It is recommended you read from the beginning of this
tantra yoga archive, as previous lessons are prerequisite to this
one. The first lesson is, "What is tantra yoga?"


Q: What you say makes sense and in true essence, it is the ojas that
we take up derived from the muladhara fire.

But it does happen especially when we are fully perched above at the
third eye and as our body is played as a divine instrument...
the 'orgasmic' waves are brought upward and centered into the third
eye... the muladhara climbs up... and then when we come...the whole
body resonates and, surprisingly, sperm does not come out.
The process also requires us to roll our tongue as a straw and suck
up the pleasure with every inhale and closing our eyes, guide it to
the third eye.


A: Thank you for you clear perspective on vajroli, and root to third
eye orgasm.

I agree, true vajroli (upward absorption of sexual fluids), beyond
the managed mechanical technique of it, is an automatic part of a
much bigger process that involves the third eye to root connection. I
call it ecstatic conductivity. You call it the muladhara (root)
climbing up to the third eye. That is an interesting description you
give, because one of the observations we have in spinal bastrika,
where attention and breath are rapidly oscillating between the third
eye and root, is that the third eye and root "merge" into one. This
merging of root and third eye is what is occurring in slow spinal
breathing as well, though it may be less noticed in the early stages.
This is the ecstatic connection being cultivated between the root and
third eye, just as you have described.

There is another element we can observe, and that is the phenomenon
of the change that occurs in "coming." In sex, "coming" is orgasm,
both before and after the vajroli effect naturally joins into the
spiritual-sexual equation. With rising ecstatic conductivity between
the root and third eye, the event of "coming" into the third eye you
describe creeps into our life as an ongoing experience. In other
words, "coming" or "orgasm" becomes an ongoing whole-body event that
never stops, and requires no external stimulation. A mere raising of
the eyes, an entering into kechari, or a small flex at the root will
keep waves of ecstasy coursing through the nervous system like a
rolling sea. And that isn't all. Over time, the whole process
migrates upward from the third eye to the crown as well. That process
of opening the crown with stability is covered in recent discussions
in the main lessons.

Can "coming" be sustained like this? Can we continue to function
under the influence of constant whole-body orgasm? Is it exhausting?

In fact, this ongoing experience of "coming" is the fruition of yoga,
the rise of an unending state of ecstatic bliss and divine love in
the nervous system. We can continue to function in this situation,
because our nervous system acclimates to it, just as it does to all
other enhancements in our spiritual neuro-biology that occur with
long term practice of yoga.

It is not exhausting. Just the opposite. As divine energy surges
through us, it continuously regenerates every cell in our body. In
this situation sex has become the source of unbounded energy,
creativity and happiness in the body. There is so much divine love
surging up inside that it flows out to everyone around us in the form
of uplifting energy and loving service.

This is why we pay close attention to the management of sexual energy
as we move along our chosen path in yoga.

Does this eliminate the need for sexual relations? It certainly makes
us less obsessive about reproductive sex. That is a good thing. At
the same time, this transformation turns all sex into spiritual
practice. Preorgasmic tantric sex can offer support to the process of
spiritual transformation. So, the advances that occur in our nervous
system as a result of yoga make sexual activity all the more precious
whenever we are inclined to engage in physical lovemaking. Sexual
activity then becomes a stepping-stone to permanent ecstatic bliss.

Reproductive sex is not mandatory for enlightenment, but under the
right circumstances it can be a significant help.

The guru is in you.

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