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Lesson 110 -
Romantic Love (Audio)
Date: Fri Feb 6, 2004 0:49pm
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Q: What would be effective yoga practices to STOP feeling romantic love for
A: If it is an infatuation, it should pass. If it is an obsession, then
daily practices discussed so far (particularly meditation) will gradually
help you to transform it to something more evolutionary. If it is a sexual
addiction that is holding you back, then, if you haven't already, see the
techniques given in the tantra lessons at:
AYP Tantra Directory - Lessons in Tantra, Meditation, Pranayama, Kundalini
If it is pure love for someone, I would not recommend stopping it. Better to
let it expand to divine dimensions through sitting practices, bhakti and
If the other you love is harming you, then keep in mind that real love is
wise and strong and can say, "No."
If your love is unrequited,
then let it redirect through bhakti, expand, and flow out to those in need
around you. Expanding love knows no boundaries and expects nothing in
There is nothing wrong with romantic love if it is expanded to divine
romance. Enlightenment is a neverending divine romance inside, overflowing
with love everywhere.
The guru is in you.
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