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Posted - Jul 13 2017 :  06:47:12 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote  Get a Link to this Message
Hello all.

About four or five years ago I had a spiritual experience and since then have seen a gradual ebbing away of the self-centered energy that was powering my sex drive.

I've found recently that I am developing the capacity to orgasm without ejaculating and that this can be repeated apparently indefinitely.

Afterwards, there is much less feeling of energy loss and it almost feels like the body has been cleansed from inside. The pleasure aspect doesn't particularly interest me however. What I wonder is whether this is actually of benefit to the body in any way? Even better - does it have a purpose that could aid in spiritual cultivation? Or is it simply the least unhealthy way to have sex? Or is it actually bad for the body to orgasm six times without ejaculating? I'm completely clueless as this is new territory for me.

I always imagined this stuff as a way to harmonize sex into spiritual living as much as possible and to mitigate the damage caused (damage is a strong word) by reducing energy loss etc. Am I wrong about that?

Also, as lust decreases, I wonder what motivation will move my sex drive in future. Isn't it destined to disappear entirely once the Self is fully realised?


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Posted - Jul 13 2017 :  11:20:46 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote  Get a Link to this Reply
What are your spiritual practices, Gnosis? Are you following AYP?
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Posted - Jul 14 2017 :  06:41:28 AM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote  Get a Link to this Reply
Hi Dogboy,

I've spent just under ten years studying with a Zen master in London. Zen and Buddhism generally is what I'm most familiar with, however I have increasing interest in Tantra and am slowly becoming more familiar with the concepts and terminology (Bhakti, Brahmacharya, etc.).

Zen was often called the "Wisdom school" because it's entire focus historically has been on what is here referred to as Advaita or non-duality, and it pretty much ignored everything else in pursuit of that goal. I think there is great benefit in this but it does mean that there's a bit of a gap in the area of how exactly the body can open up in a harmonious manner. I think that is what is gravitating me towards learning about the chakras and tantric sex and everything else.

I very much want to understand the role of sex in spirituality. To be honest, even though I've developed the capacity to redirect energy to prevent ejaculation, my libido has diminished and is continuing to do so and I still haven't really forgiven life for this. I know this area is a block for me.
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Posted - Jul 14 2017 :  12:07:34 PM  Show Profile  Visit Christi's Homepage  Reply with Quote  Get a Link to this Reply
Hi Gnosis,

Welcome to the forum!

Moving towards non-ejaculatory sex is a natural part of the process of spiritual evolution. When you don't ejaculate during orgasm, the semen will either remain in the testes or it will move up into the bladder. This can also happen during pre-orgasmic sex.

From the bladder, an etheric aspect of the sexual fluids can move higher up into the body producing what is called amrita, or the elixir of immortality. What you are experiencing is the beginning of this process.

Whether this process takes place or not depends more on your spiritual practices and the state of purification of your body than on anything else.

If you have not discovered them yet, the Tantra lessons on this site cover many aspects of Tantric sex including the process of the transubstantiation of sexual energy and fluids. You can find them here:

Tantra Lessons Directory

As for whether Tantric practices are harmful to the body, I have never come across any scientific studies that have been carried out which show that Tantric sexual practices are unhealthy. People have been using Tantric practices for thousands of years without any issues being reported, so I tend to assume from that, that it is not harmful. If it was, I am sure we would have heard about it by now.

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Posted - Jul 17 2017 :  1:33:42 PM  Show Profile  Reply with Quote  Get a Link to this Reply
Thanks very much Christi :). I wasn't familiar with amrita. Very interesting
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