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T51 - Implications of Whole Body Orgasm (Audio)
T51.1 - Inner Blockages and the Multi-Orgasmic Man (Audio)
Brahmacharya and Use of Prostate Stimulating Device (Audio)
Date: Mon Jun 19, 2006 12:13 pm
It is recommended you read from the beginning of this tantra yoga archive,
as previous lessons are prerequisite to this one. The first lesson is, "What
is tantra yoga?"
Q: I am going to gather some courage and ask
you a question ... and I am looking forward to reading the new AYP Tantra
book. Based on the little I have read from you so far, and the discussions
in the AYP forums, here is something I have been doing.
time now, I stop just before an orgasm, either I stop my husband or if I am
on my own, I stop myself. Then I continue, all the time in sambhavi and
mulabandha and pulling the energy up my spine to my head. In the beginning
after about 3 times, I finally could not control it any more, and I did have
an orgasm. But it would not be very draining, since I would have moved most
of the energy up. I have got that perfected now, and for the last 2 months I
don't need to stop. I will not have an orgasm unless I want one, which I
have not had one in a while. Now, any time I want I can just sit in
mulbandha and sambhavi and arouse the sexual energy up and have a full body
orgasm, or at least I think that's what it is.
Here is my question.
What am I achieving with this? All this energy that I am generating and
pulling up, what use is it to me, if any?
A: It's a really good
question. It shows your forward movement!
Unlike most of our other
practices, we engage in tantric sexual methods to eventually move beyond
them. The pre-orgasmic techniques of tantric sex help develop and ultimately
dissolve into full time whole body ecstatic conductivity. An expert in
tantric sexual practices is someone who does not need them anymore! It then
becomes a matter of working mainly with sitting practices and other aspects
in daily living -- automatic whole body mudra and outpouring of divine love,
making every minute of our life a service to the divine flow coming through
us. By that time, what we have called "orgasm" has become that ongoing
divine process, reaching far beyond our loins and body to encompass the
cosmos. It is an unending feeling of glory and grace that is far beyond
Of course, we can't start with this in the beginning
with our tantric sex. It is a progression. Most of us want to delve into
expanding the scope of our sexual experience. Beyond that, it is a process
of neurobiological transformation going on within us, and this is where
tantra becomes yoga. It is a dance that is going on all through the AYP
Tantra book, where we fully accommodate sexual principles and practices, and
then point higher through sitting practices. It is the same process of going
higher you have been discovering on your own. Bravo!
You are right
to be wondering "what am I achieving with this?" It is an advanced view you
are having - thinking about the yogic aspect more than the pleasure aspect.
There is the misconception that tantric practice will continue indefinitely
in sexual mode. Not so. It is about taking our normal sexual tendencies,
whatever they may be, and using them to go higher. And then we get to a
point where we say, "Okay, I can move on now." It is not about the pleasure
anymore, even though we are getting more of it than we could imagine. It is
about our spiritual evolution. You are doing that. So now your sitting
practices, and life in general, are receiving that boost of brahmacharya
cultivated in tantric practice. By "brahmacharya," we do not mean celibacy.
In AYP, we define brahmacharya to be "preservation and cultivation of sexual
energy." That is the purpose of all tantric sexual methods, whether in
partner or solo relations, or in siddhasana, mulabandha/asvini, sambhavi,
kechari, spinal breathing, etc. Deep meditation is at the foundation of the
whole thing, of course -- in stillness -- pure bliss consciousness.
We always have the option for regular reproductive sex if desired. We do not
lose our sexual ability. Rather, we have expanded it to encompass much more
- ecstatic bliss and outpouring divine love! Our sexuality evolves to
include a much wider range of experience.
So you are on the right
track. The free flow of your sexuality has been a blessing, and now you are
moving permanently higher with it. It should be mentioned that getting stuck
in the drama of sex is a primary cause of whole body ecstatic conductivity
being delayed -- constipation of sexual energy in the nervous system. That
is why we have tantric methods, to approach and work through obstructions to
our ecstatic nature, as necessary. In AYP, we work on it from every
practical angle, in our sitting practices and through our sexual lifestyle,
whatever it may be. It is all about purification and opening. As our nervous
system opens and becomes an increasingly pure vehicle for our vast inner
potential, we become a channel for infinite joy and progress in this world.
The guru is in you.
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